I have been a people pleaser for as long as I can remember. Maybe it stems from being a middle child or being adopted or just being a female in general succumbing to the societal pressures of being accommodating and pleasant. "What a bitch." I remember the first time I was called a bitch. It… Continue reading Unapologetic Bitch
Here's another how-to article. I don't know, maybe you're someone who doesn't get attached and is able to let go of things relatively easy. It's no secret if you've met me that I am a very sensitive individual and feel things deeply. When I care for someone whether they are a coworker, friend, or someone… Continue reading How I Let Go
I was scrolling through my facebook newsfeed one not too distant night when I came across a video that really peeked my interest. A person went around to strangers and asked them what was the most painful thing they had ever been told - and they filmed the interaction. I pick people apart like puzzles.… Continue reading Random Sad Thoughts.
I recently implemented drastic changes to my diet as a part of my journey of self love and self respect. Most of my relationships, as I approached 30, needed a revamp - including my relationship with food. Food shouldn't be used as a reward or punishment but as fuel. (I know this. You know this.....and… Continue reading How My Crappy Math Skills Almost Made Me Crap Myself.
Tonight I am wide awake. I just spent the past 5 hours painting. It's now 2 a.m. I am so relentlessly overwhelmed by the memory - eyes like my favorite cup of coffee. Memories of gliding over the water, literally rowing into the sunset in a canoe. I didn't have a single worry. It wasn't… Continue reading Without a Paddle
I am terrible at relationships. This is not a secret. You know how the common reactions to fear are either fight or flight? The anxiety that comes over me in a relationship results in a somewhat spastic combo. I tend to rush things, getting swept up in new feelings that deafen me to the… Continue reading Red Flag
This is a short one. Just a nugget of wisdom I'm writing down to help carry with me. If you really want to know the truth about someone don't listen to their enemies. Their ex is not going to be honest because they are bitter. Don't listen to someone they fired or haven't had contact… Continue reading Nugget