Black Girl Problems, Misogyny, Race, Uncategorized


        A near 40 yr old college student recently asked me a question to evade from answering one. (He tried to avoid accountability for lies he told.)  I answered it with facts and dismissed him.  His response of deflection, evasion, and then defensiveness to a simple yes or no question was more… Continue reading Discomfort.

Advice, Relationships, Uncategorized


I was listening to a podcast recently with the boss babe trinity - Oprah, Mindy Kaling, and Reese Witherspoon.  I find each of these women so inspiring.  They discussed many points on female empowerment .   A concept they introduced to me  in their conversation was the idea of becoming more relate-able and less likable. There… Continue reading Likable