Dating, LOSS, Relationships, Uncategorized

Modern UnLove

   Enter exhibit A. A for Adam - Man.  The story is always the same for me with very few variations.  My relationships are like those adventure books with a choose your own ending - except the ending is always the same. Dating for me are chronicles of choose your own beginning books except they come… Continue reading Modern UnLove

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Dating, Relationships, Uncategorized

What I Know

The goal has never been marriage or babies.  People get married everyday.  People have babies every day - and have been since the beginning of time. In the beginning there was a marriage, they had sex, and then had a baby.  Tale as old as time so to speak.  People also get divorced everyday. People… Continue reading What I Know

Black Girl Problems, Race, Social Media, Theatre, Uncategorized

Whitesplained

  A little background. A local community theater group, (Olean Theatre Workshop), recently did an almost all female production of Arthur Miller's, The Crucible.  In The Crucible, for those who may not be familiar, is a character named Tituba who is a black slave and calls for black actress to play the role.  Olean Theatre Workshop casted… Continue reading Whitesplained

Childhood, Dating, Family, LOSS, Relationships, Uncategorized

Mother, May I?

Growing up I always saw myself as a mother.  Motherhood I felt, was an inevitable obligation and was just something that happened. At one point in my teen years I distinctly remember wanting at least 8 children.   That number drastically dropped as years went on.  I'm really good with small children.  I started babysitting at… Continue reading Mother, May I?