Dating, Mental Health, Relationships, Uncategorized


My therapist thinks I need to get out more. "Do you want to meet someone?" he leaned forward in the chair.  I really like this new therapist. He reminds me of Mr. Rogers. I think I would have liked him as a teacher in school.  He's very kind, soft spoken, and his office smells like… Continue reading Loveable

Dating, Relationships, Uncategorized

What I Know

The goal has never been marriage or babies.  People get married everyday.  People have babies every day - and have been since the beginning of time. In the beginning there was a marriage, they had sex, and then had a baby.  Tale as old as time so to speak.  People also get divorced everyday. People… Continue reading What I Know

Advice, Feminism, Misogyny, Uncategorized

Unapologetic Bitch

I have been a people pleaser for as long as I can remember.  Maybe it stems from being a middle child or being adopted or just being a female in general succumbing to the societal pressures of being accommodating and pleasant. "What a bitch." I remember the first time I was called a bitch.  It… Continue reading Unapologetic Bitch

Advice, Dating, Friendship, LOSS, Relationships, Uncategorized

How I Let Go

Here's another how-to article.  I don't know, maybe you're someone who doesn't get attached and is able to let go of things relatively easy.  It's no secret if you've met me that I am a very sensitive individual and feel things deeply.  When I care for someone whether they are a  coworker, friend,  or someone… Continue reading How I Let Go

Advice, Dating, Relationships, Uncategorized

Red Flag

  I am terrible at relationships. This is not a secret.  You know how the common reactions to fear are either fight or flight?  The anxiety that comes over me in a relationship results in a  somewhat  spastic combo.  I tend to rush things, getting swept up in new feelings that deafen me to the… Continue reading Red Flag